Thursday, January 17, 2013

Reverse Culture Shock


The Frau descended on the United States for a few weeks this Christmas. In this special edition post that proves Reverse Culture Shock is alive and well, here are some of her observations.

Things about the United States that offended her Swissified sensibilities:

People leave their cars running forever and ever.

One U.S. strip mall. So many possibilities...
People have trashcans that are bigger than some Swiss apartments.

Stores leave their doors wide open in winter (The Frau personally shut them).

Waitresses and waiters visit the table way too frequently.

Prices are annoying. Like paying an amount like $7.72. How uneven and sloppy.

Most towns have little charm or character.

Chain stores have taken over everywhere.

You can’t walk to anything.

People wear pajamas in public.

The strip malls never end.

Football is always front-page news. Despite all the other issues that should be.

There is an obsession with material things.

The concept of layaway.

Things about the United States that she loved:

Americans say „sorry“ all the time, even when they have nothing to be sorry about, like when they get within one foot of the Frau at a store. (In contrast, today a Swiss man ran his grocery cart into her at Migros and wasn’t sorry at all. And on Monday, a man on a Swiss train kicked her by mistake on the train and also said nothing). Sigh. There appears to be no middle ground.

No cigarette smoke in her face.

Lots of personal space.

Movies with no subtitles in the way.

People that smile a lot.

Free water.

Free tea refills.

Shopping on Sunday.

Eavesdropping.

Root beer.

Deep dish pizza.

$20 hair cut.

Family close by.

Not feeling like a foreigner.

Charging a purchase as little as $3.52 on a credit card.

What does your version of reverse culture shock involve?

11 comments:

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Paul said...

Those are two very good lists. I am a Brit in the US, but I relate in many areas to what you've written! :)

Hattie said...

I hear you about how restful it is not to be a foreigner. No matter how nice a place is, and Switzerland is very nice, you never quite fit in.

Chantal said...

Thanks, Paul. And yes, Hattie, what you said is very true.

Bill Harby said...

Back in the U.S. this fall:

1) Seeing a price tag and knowing that's not really the price because of taxes.

2) Having to be surreptitious when having a bottle of wine with a picnic in a city park.

3) Having someone tell me I was being pretentious because I correctly pronounced a French word. Except he used the French word "pretentieuse"! And pronounced it correctly!

Rob in Lausanne said...

Greetings from down under Chantal. WE've been back home six months and barely notice the cultural cringe issues any more. They are more than replaced by going surfing at five thirty in the morning in the Pacific where the water temp is 26 degrees, by good service and smiling faces, by neighbours who drop by for a cuppa and wild birds that eat out of your hands... oh yeah and free delivery of white goods from your local appliance store.

I miss the natural beauty of Europe, the history, the travel but I have definitely found that love and people are more important than money.

Cheers from the world's happiest country.

Rob

TheTuscan said...

Cigarette smoke seems to fill the air in public areas in Switzerland. It is very annoying.
I had reverse cultural shock even before I left Italy. Things that I don't like when I go there now I already didn't like when I lived there. For instance, the fact that nothing is ever going to happen the way you were told it would.

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Liberty Silvagni said...

I think it's already given that in order to counteract with culture shock is to have an effective risk management. Anticipate the changes and be ready with a solution.

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